Must read; What is the piece of advice you would like to give to married couples? Courtesy: Venky ,Tantric Therapist

1. Remember you are in bond - You’re sharing life, anything or everything you do it has impact on both of your lives, your family. Just literally treat your spouse as your physical other half, keep practicing this, this will solve all your problems.
2. Never try to win the argument - Instead win the heart of your spouse. Sometimes by calm, sometimes by compromise, sometimes by adjustment, sometimes by a step backward. Don’t take these are negative emotions, these are the great building blocks for relationship. They help you more than love and sex.
3. Be a good listener - Everybody talks, but matured person learns the art of listening, processing, understanding after that acting on it.
4. Respect - You never let down your spouse with disrespect. Even if the world is against him/her, if you treat your partner with respect, that one thing decides the longevity and healthiness of your relationship.
5. Treatment - Never take your spouse as granted. Every emotion you show, it will have huge impact on her/him. He/She is a living being but not a machine / tool. Never ever let down your spouse by any means.
6. Pain in the ass - It’s okay if you are not behind your spouse success, but never be behind their tears / hurt.
7. The great way to measure love - One when you are feeding food, Two when you are in intimate love making.
8. Measure your sexual bond - The no of sexual encounters in a month matters. Unfortunately it is < 10times per month for most of the couples. Those who ensures > 20times leads with a great loving, understanding bond.
9. Conversation is the key - At any point of time make sure, you both are having a bond, where you can share, discuss, think together then come to an understanding how to proceed. To happen this conversation is the key.
10. The relationship should not be like a TV and Remote, but it should be like Plug and Hole. Though it looks funny, it has a deep meaning. Like how an adapter solves the fitting problems, The bond has to adapt to any gaps in life. Hence the current called harmony flows.